You don’t have to wait for Valentine’s Day to find your date! Technology has (unfortunately) changed the entire system. Dating apps have transformed the laws of love, from who texts first to who calls first after the date. Keeping all these complications aside, it’s best to focus on the old school techniques and master them first.
Here are some best dating tips:
Be on time
Punctuality is sexy. Okay, maybe not all that sensuous, but it’s a guarantee that you won’t be thrown out of her mental list of potential “boyfriends.” Decide on a time according to her convenience and yours, and also offer to pick her from her house or workplace. After all, first impression is the last impression.
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Confidence does it all
Your confidence is the only thing in your control that will make her like you. If you seem to be unsure of your actions or words, it’s going to be a major turn off for her. Remember: She’s going to be attracted to a powerful man, a man who knows his true strengths. She would want you to be her knight in shining armour, rather than being feeble and timid. Also, it’s smart to carry a condom with you, then to regret later.
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Don’t be outrageous to get attention
Being confident is one thing, but being over confident isn’t really cool. Women sense these things easily, and you don’t be able to hide it. When it’s obvious that you can hardly afford a bottle of scotch, you cannot go around boasting about your watch collection at home. It’s really tricky and the smart ones will definitely get this. The solution is to make it sound nice and doable, the motto must be to impress her, but be logical.
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Call back sooner
As believed by most, it isn’t necessary to wait for 2-3 days after your first date. If you feel you’ve really hit it off with her, you should call her immediately! No, you won’t come off as needy or desperate. You’ll only be perceived to be real and interested in her, unlike others who follow the infamous “rule.” It always helps not to be a follower.
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Stop taking advice and get out there
At the end of the day, it’s all about your actions, your intentions and your persuasion. How many ever guides you read through, they’re not going to help you up your game unless you go out in the field and make it count! Dating guidelines are like reading about fitness. Till the time you implement it, you’re not going to find any results.
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Take it easy. Don’t be nervous. And the most important part is, wait till you connect mentally. Don’t rush it. Physical intimacy will follow, and you’ll notice the cues. Play the game safe!